The best time to negotiate your salary for a new job is the moment AFTER they say they want you， and not before. Then it becomes a game of chicken for each side to name an amount first， but it is to your advantage to get them to give a number before you do.

时间的流逝既是祝福也是诅咒。

你无法前瞻性地连接这些点；你只能回顾性地连接它们。