刚的东西容易折断,柔的东西因为可以卷曲所以不易折断。
You have to have confidence in your ability, and then be tough enough to follow through.
No one can become fully aware of the very essence of another human being unless he loves him.
From this point on DO NOT WASTE ANOTHER DAY!!! Make a promise to yourself that you’ll start today because everyday is an opportunity to begin a new way of life and everyday you waste you add to the misery you carry. Since we’re not promised tomorrow you either will die in your misery or you’ll die in gift, pick your gift.
【原文】宰予昼寝。子曰:“朽木不可雕也,粪土之墙不可圬也,于予与何诛?”【译文】宰予白天睡觉。孔子说:“真像腐朽的木头一样无法再雕琢,像粪墙一样不能再粉刷了,对于宰予这个人,我还责备他什么呢?”孔子又说:“开始时我对于人,是听了他的话就相信他的行为;现在我对于人,是听了他的话,还要观察他的行为。宰予使我改变了观察人的方法。”
你能给别人的最伟大的礼物就是你的时间和关注。