If someone tells you he is going to make a “realistic decision”, you immediately understand that he has resolved to do something bad.
改变是不可避免的,但成长是可选的。
It’s possible that a not-so smart person, who can communicate well, can do much better than a super smart person who can’t communicate well. That is good news because it is much easier to improve your communication skills than your intelligence.
Behavior is determined by the total situation.