当有人对你讨厌、粗鲁、憎恨或刻薄时,假设他们是病人。这使你更容易对他们产生共情,从而缓和冲突。
When someone is nasty, rude, hateful, or mean with you, pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.
Architecture begins where engineering ends.
不要在电子邮件中说任何你不愿意直接对某人说的关于某人的事情,因为最终他们会知道。
孩子最初爱他们父母,等大一些他们评判父母;然后有些时候,他们原谅父母。