当有人对你讨厌、粗鲁、憎恨或刻薄时，假设他们是病人。这使你更容易对他们产生共情，从而缓和冲突。
When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.
目的赋予心理活动意义。
Your so-called boss may own the clock that taunts you from the wall, but, my friends, the hour is yours.
学会进行20分钟的小憩而不感到不自然。
There are more important things in life than winning or losing a game.
世界是一本书，不旅行的人只读了一页。
We make up horrors to help us cope with the real ones.
不要在别人的梦里做一个配角，要成为自己生命的主角。