当有人对你讨厌、粗鲁、憎恨或刻薄时，假设他们是病人。这使你更容易对他们产生共情，从而缓和冲突。
When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.
The trouble with most people is that they think with their hopes or fears or wishes rather than with their minds.
世界是一本书，不旅行的人只读了一页。