Whenever there is an argument between two sides, find the third side.
如果两方发生争执,不要争吵,让第三方来判决。
释义:杜绝不良嗜好,禁止过度欲望,从而摆脱牵累;抑制错误行为,减少邪恶之事,从而消除过错;减少饮酒,远离美色,从而保持自身清白。这是对修身养性、克制欲望的教导。 
如果你能看见,就看。如果你能看,就观察。
In truth, the foundation of education in general is the education of the poor.