Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.

译文：保持虚静无为的状态，往往会从隐蔽的角度得知他人的行为漏洞。

The first step is to establish that something is possible; then probability will occur.

过去从未死去。它甚至不是过去。