And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.

"The best investment you can make is in yourself."

大国政治的悲剧在于它导致冲突和战争。

创新不仅仅是技术的问题；它关乎改变人们的思维和行为方式。