"To heal, you have to feel."

生活的目的不是快乐，而是有用、光荣、富有同情心，让你活得有意义、活得好。

It seems to me that if you or I must choose between two courses of thought or action, we should remember our dying and try so to live that our death brings no pleasure to the world.

我曾把许多东西握在手中，但都失去了；但无论我把什么放在上帝的手中，我仍然拥有它。