There's a real correlation between a society that tells people that they can do anything, and the existence of low self-esteem. So that's another way in which something quite positive can have a nasty kickback. There is another reason why we might be feeling more anxious --about our careers, about our status in the world today, than ever before. And it's, again, linked to something nice. And that nice thing is called meritocracy.

The only people who see the whole picture are the ones who step out of the frame.

Inside us there is something that has no name, that something is what we are.

我来不是为了融入，而是为了脱颖而出。