There are only two tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants and the other is getting it.

"In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength."

释义：如果只听取某一个人的意见或只依赖某一个人，就容易产生奸邪之事；如果独自决断、只任用某一个人，就容易引发祸乱。