Maybe all we can hope for is to end up with the right regrets.
"The greatest thing in style is to have a command of metaphor."
I think it's important to have a good hard failure when you're young... I learned a lot from that. Because it makes you kind of aware of what can happen to you. Because of it, I've never had any fear in my whole life when we've been near collapse and so on. I've never been afraid.
True understanding comes from grasping the inner structural relationships of a problem.