You can't control everything. Sometimes you just need to relax and have faith that things will work out. Let go a little and just let life happen.
Pain is temporary. It may last a minute, or an hour, or a day, or a year, but eventually it will subside and something else will take its place. If I quit, however, it lasts forever.
弟子不必不如师,师不必贤于弟子。弟子超过老师,是很正常的事情,这也是正是老师所希望的。