What can be said at all can be said clearly; and whereof one cannot speak thereof one must be silent.
Life is a balance between what we can control and what we cannot. I am learning to live between effort and surrender.
司马牛忧伤地说:“别人都有兄弟,唯独我没有。”子夏说:“我听说过:‘死生有命,富贵在天’。君子敬业而不犯错误,对人恭敬而有礼。四海之内,皆兄弟。君子担心什么没有兄弟?”