I've learned that you can't control what other people think of you, but you can control what you think of yourself.
The things we admire in men, kindness and generosity, openness, honesty, understanding and feeling, are the concomitants of failure in our system. And those traits we detest, sharpness, greed, acquisitiveness, meanness, egotism and self-interest, are the traits of success.
仲弓问仁。孔子说:“出门时要象会见贵宾一样庄重,建工程时要象举行盛大祭典一样严肃。自己不愿做的,不要强加于人。同事中相处融洽,亲属中和睦友爱。”仲弓说:“我虽不才,愿照此办理。”
A company’s culture is shaped by the worst behavior the leadership is willing to tolerate.