Rule of 3 in conversation. To get to the real reason， ask a person to go deeper than what they just said. Then again， and once more. The third time’s answer is close to the truth.

我们都是相连的，不仅彼此相连，还与土地、天空和海洋相连。

我不害怕失败，我害怕的是没有全力以赴。