所以，父母、老师、国君三者，都不能当作做事的法度。 

The ability to associate depends, in turn, on the degree to which communities share norms and values and are able to subordinate individual interests to those of larger groups.

我写作是为了记住，不让过去溜走。

In the midst of difficult times， it is our response that defines us， not the circumstances.