The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.

小说是对人类现实最完整、最复杂、最深刻的表达形式。

A wise man said: before you speak， let your words pass through three gates. At the first gate， ask yourself， "Is it true？" At the second gate， ask "Is it necessary？" At the third gate， ask， "Is it kind？"