When speaking to an audience it’s better to fix your gaze on a few people than to “spray” your gaze across the room. Your eyes telegraph to others whether you really believe what you are saying.
You don’t have to be perfect to inspire others. Let people get inspired by how you deal with your imperfections.
写作的行为就是发现你信仰的行为。
对最强烈冲突的克服，使我们获得一种稳定超然的安全与宁静感。要获得有益而持久的心理安全与宁静，所需要的正是这种强烈冲突的大暴发。
Your time is limited, don't waste it living someone else's life.