The world is full of people who have stopped listening to themselves or have listened only to their neighbors to learn what they ought to do, how they ought to behave, and what the values are that they should be living by.

你可以非常爱一个人……但你永远无法像想念他们那样爱他们。

To name something is to begin to free oneself from it.

我们并不完美，但我们彼此完美契合。