每个人都是自己的上苍。如果你自己都放弃自己,还有谁会救你?强者自救,圣者渡人。
Every man is his own God. If you give up yourself, who else will save you? A strong man can save.
That's exhilarating if you're doing well, and very crushing if you're not. It leads, in the worst cases -- in the analysis of a sociologist like Emil Durkheim -- it leads to increased rates of suicide. There are more suicides in developed, individualistic countries than in any other part of the world. And some of the reason for that is that people take what happens to them extremely personally -- they own their success, but they also own their failure.
The only thing that separates successful people from the others is hard work.
The most important thing is to have a child. Everything else is secondary.
The duty of literature is to disturb, to question, to undermine certainties.