We are all haunted by the ghosts of our own pasts, and sometimes, by the ghosts of others.

"You don't get to choose if you get hurt in this world, but you do have some say in who hurts you."

成功之梯最好是通过踏上机会的横档来攀登。

没有事情的时候，需要照管这颗心，小心谨慎，好像有事一样；有了事情的时候，却要放下这颗心，泰然自得，好像没事一样。没有事情能像有事一样提防，才可以平息意想不到的变故；有了事情能像无事一样镇定，才能消除事件过程中的危机。

最痛苦的事情是在太爱一个人的过程中失去自己，忘记了你也很特别。

"I never guess. It is a shocking habit—destructive to the logical faculty."

I was never really insane except upon occasions when my heart was touched.

和一个人玩一个小时对他的了解，胜过于一年的对谈。