解读：抽象群体易被理想化，而身边真实个体有缺点、会犯错，呼吁把关爱落到实处，关心身边亲朋，而非空谈大爱，忽略眼前人的需求。

不要施小恩惠而伤害整体，更不可以公济私。以常情宽恕别人，以道理约束自己。

我希望被人们记住为一个能够帮助他人表达自我并活在当下的人。

I was born with an enormous need for affection, and a terrible need to give it.

The true measure of success is not just profit, but the positive impact we leave behind.