心理学必须始终问:这如何帮助有机体生活?
从正确的事情开始,而不是从可接受的事情开始。
"الكتابة هي الطريقة الوحيدة التي أستطيع بها أن أتنفس."
To exhibit is to make a political statement, whether you want it or not.
做你自己,因为别人已经有人做了。
决策分析的本质是将复杂问题分解为更简单、更易管理的组成部分。
When you focus on doing what's right rather than what's easy, success follows naturally.
我是个失败的诗人。也许每个小说家最初都想写诗,发现自己做不到后尝试短篇小说——那是仅次于诗歌要求最高的形式。连这个也失败了,他才会转向长篇小说。
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.