有关接受的20句名人名言哲理格言警句语录

我必须在这里做个总结，但我真正想说的是，成功是必要的，但请接受自己怪异的想法，朝着自己对成功的定义出发，确定我们对成功的定义都是出于自己的真心。

So, I'm going to end it there. But what I really want to stress is: by all means, success, yes. But let's accept the strangeness of some of our ideas. Let's probe away at our notions of success. Let's make sure our ideas of success are truly our own.

阿兰·德波顿

我们也会从电视、广告，各样的市场宣传中得到我们对成功的想象。这些东西影响了我们，对我们自己的看法、我们想要什么。当我们听说银行业是个受人尊敬的行业，许多人便加入银行业，当银行业不再受人尊敬，我们便对银行业失去兴趣，我们很能接受建议。

And we also suck in messages from everything from the television, to advertising, to marketing, etc. These are hugely powerful forces that define what we want and how we view ourselves. When we're told that banking is a very respectable profession, a lot of us want to go into banking. When banking is no longer so respectable, we lose interest in banking. We are highly open to suggestion.

阿兰·德波顿

我对成功有一些观察，你不可能在所有事情上成功。我们常听到有关工作和休闲的平衡，鬼话。你不可能全部拥有。你就是不能。所有对成功的想象，必须承认他们同时也失去了一些东西，放弃了一些东西。我想一个智者能接受，如我所说，总是有什么是我们得不到的。

Here's an insight that I've had about success: You can't be successful at everything. We hear a lot of talk about work-life balance. Nonsense. You can't have it all. You can't. So any vision of success has to admit what it's losing out on, where the element of loss is. And I think any wise life will accept, as I say, that there is going to be an element where we're not succeeding.

阿兰·德波顿

我关注的是去爱而非爱。如果说我注重的是前者，那么也许是因为被爱在两者中总是更复杂。丘比特箭的发射比接收更容易，给与比接受更轻松。

阿兰·德波顿

当个人的判断被推广，使其为女友或男友（或者整个国家的公民）接受之时，当我认为这很不错成为我认为这对你来说也很不错时，这种从个人观点扩展到众人共识的举动实乃一件专横之事。

阿兰·德波顿

美丽毕竟不是可以通过说服别人来接受的啊。

阿兰·德波顿

伴随幸福而来的问题源自于幸福的罕见、稀有，使人一旦接受，就会焦虑，害怕幸福短暂。

阿兰·德波顿

当幸福源自人们可以控制的那些事物，源自人们经过很大的努力和推理之后才回的的那些事物，这种幸福是最容易接受的。

阿兰·德波顿

虽然飞机通常都颇为腼腆，不愿承认自己需要到停机坪里接受保养——即使他们从洛杉矶或香港飞回希斯罗机场后，已达到了900小时的飞行时数上限，也极少会表现出自己的疲态——但这样的定期检查却是个让它们表现个性的机会。