That's exhilarating if you're doing well, and very crushing if you're not. It leads, in the worst cases -- in the analysis of a sociologist like Emil Durkheim -- it leads to increased rates of suicide. There are more suicides in developed, individualistic countries than in any other part of the world. And some of the reason for that is that people take what happens to them extremely personally -- they own their success, but they also own their failure.

和我一起变老吧！最好的日子还在后头，生命的最后时光，正是为了最初的日子而存在的。

朋友比钱更好。几乎所有金钱能做的事情，朋友都能做得更好。在许多方面，有一个有船的朋友比自己有一艘船要好。

Psychology must avoid all forms of mentalism.

"你越是试图理解影子，就越少知道。"

孔子说：“品质恶劣的人，忍受不了贫穷，享受不了快乐。仁者安仁，智者利仁。”