To be a woman is to be constantly negotiating between safety and desire.

【解释】人常常在忧患困苦中，才能磨练意志，增长才干。

We are all hostages of our own memories.

If you can’t tell what you desperately need， it’s probably sleep.

Memories， even your most precious ones， fade surprisingly quickly. But I don’t go along with that. The memories I value most， I don’t ever see them fading.

You have to grind when no one else is grinding so you can shine when no one else is shining.