感情有时候只是一个人的事情。和任何人无关。爱，或者不爱，只能自行了断。伤口是别人给予的耻辱，自己坚持的幻觉。 - 每日文摘

The greatest gift you can give someone is your time and attention.

你能给别人的最大礼物就是你的时间和关注。

玛丽亚·凯莉

我不是坏人，我只是一个有时会做坏事的人。

I'm not a bad guy, I'm just a guy who sometimes does bad things.

艾米纳姆

齐一变，至于鲁，鲁一变，至于道。

孔子

Wholly unprepared, we embark upon the second half of life. Or are there perhaps colleges for forty-year-olds which prepare them for their coming life and its demands as the ordinary colleges introduce our young people to a knowledge of the world? No, thoroughly unprepared we take the step into the afternoon of life; worse still, we take this step with the false assumption that our truths and ideals will serve us as hitherto. But we cannot live the afternoon of life according to the programme of life's morning; for what was great in the morning will be little at evening, and what in the morning was true will at evening have become a lie.

我们完全手足无措地踏上生命的后半征程。普通大学把年轻人引入知识世界，什么学校能让四十几岁人为未来生活做好准备？没有这种学校，我们完全无备地踏入后半生；而更糟的是，我们假定现实和理想会一如既往地效忠于我们。但实际上，我们不能依照生命之晨，来度过生命之午后，因为晨时的伟大会成为傍晚时的琐碎，而晨时的真理会在傍晚变为谎言。