写作就是生活，生活就是写作。

If you worried about falling off the bike, you'd never get on.

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.

有时看前来像是解决方案比问题多。仔细观瞧，今天的很多问题都是昨天的解决方案带来的结果。

The reality is: sometimes you lose. And you're never too good to lose. You're never too big to lose. You're never too smart to lose. It happens.