When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.

最好的艺术来自痛苦。

最伟大的旅程不是用里程衡量的，而是用理解衡量的。

A building is not just a place to be, but a way to see.

出自《史记·货殖列传》，马伯庸在作品中引用。