成为你自己故事的英雄。

Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.

晏子春秋

My house is my refuge, an emotional piece of architecture, not a cold piece of convenience.

心不是一个隐喻。