悲伤会改变形态但永远不会真正离开我们。

The only way to tell the truth is to speak with authority.

宝剑干将虽然锋利无比、名闻天下，但是，木匠用它伐树却比不上斧头。点评：方法不对，适得其反。

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.