适应是理解行为的关键。

Psychology should help us understand how we meet life's challenges.

I have always been attracted by the fantastic, the strange, the surreal.

At a restaurant do you order what you know is great， or do you try something new？ Do you make what you know will sell or try something new？ Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met？ The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive， but aim for 1/3.

最伟大的发现往往来自意想不到的地方。

"Optimism is a strategy for making a better future."

History is written by the victors, but art can rewrite it.