"The silence between words is as important as the words themselves; it is where the unsaid resides."

假设生活会非常艰难，然后问自己能否承受。如果答案是肯定的，你就赢了。

逃避问题的最好方法就是解决它。

The past is a place we can visit but never stay.

The most difficult thing in life is to know yourself.

At a restaurant do you order what you know is great， or do you try something new？ Do you make what you know will sell or try something new？ Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met？ The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive， but aim for 1/3.