如果现在湖人是泰坦尼克，我会和他一起沉下去。

最危险的谎言是我们对自己说的谎言。

The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself.

At a restaurant do you order what you know is great， or do you try something new？ Do you make what you know will sell or try something new？ Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met？ The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive， but aim for 1/3.

真相是，我们都有自己的现实版本，有时候很难调和两者。

The city is a book written by its inhabitants.

"The best stories are the ones that make you feel hopeful."