译文：用心算计别人时，自己就会出错，退一步考虑事情，任何事就会变得宽广。赏析：处处算计别人，时刻都想占便宜，总有一天自己会被别人算计。心胸开阔，放低姿态，忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空。

So, I'm going to end it there. But what I really want to stress is: by all means, success, yes. But let's accept the strangeness of some of our ideas. Let's probe away at our notions of success. Let's make sure our ideas of success are truly our own.

当你听取不同的观点时，尤其是那些与你意见相左的人时，才能做出最好的决定。

When brainstorming， improvising， jamming with others， you’ll go much further and deeper if you build upon each contribution with a playful “yes — and” example instead of a deflating “no — but” reply.

应对过去的唯一方法就是直面它。