I write not to explain the world but to understand it.

孔子说：“经常学习，不也喜悦吗？远方来了朋友，不也快乐吗？得不到理解而不怨恨，不也是君子吗？”

最终，我们都在寻找一个属于我们的地方。

At a restaurant do you order what you know is great， or do you try something new？ Do you make what you know will sell or try something new？ Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met？ The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive， but aim for 1/3.