In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.

At a restaurant do you order what you know is great， or do you try something new？ Do you make what you know will sell or try something new？ Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met？ The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive， but aim for 1/3.

Sometimes I wish someone out there will find me

I believe in working hard and staying humble.

"The poet's job is to find the words that will make the invisible visible."