And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.

最好的性能改进是从非工作状态到工作状态的转变。

The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said.

心灵是一个协调感觉的系统。

在旧的世界里，你用30％的时间创建一种伟大的服务，用70％的时间来营销。在新的世界里，这个比例应该倒过来。

"One way of looking at speech is to say that it is a constant stratagem to cover nakedness."

真实的人互相认可。

在当今世界，数字技能和读写能力一样重要。

我只想知道我将在哪里死去，这样我就永远不会去那里。