你无法改变你周围的人，但你可以改变你选择与谁在一起。

I do not know what I may appear to the world， but to myself I seem to have been only like a boy playing on the sea-shore， and diverting myself in now and then finding a smoother pebble or a prettier shell than ordinary， whilst the great ocean of truth lay all undiscovered before me.

每个人都是自己的上苍。如果你自己都放弃自己，还有谁会救你？强者自救，圣者渡人。