You pray for rain, you gotta deal with the mud too. That's a part of it.

生活就是当你忙于制定其他计划时发生的事情。

The greatest obstacle to being heroic is the doubt whether one may not be going to prove one's self a fool; the truest heroism is to resist the doubt; and the profoundest wisdom, to know when it ought to be resisted, and when to be obeyed.