压力这个词在我们的词汇中被误用了。当你开始考虑压力时，那是因为你已经失去了专注。

The only purpose for which power can be rightfully exercised over any member of a civilized community， against his will， is to prevent harm to others.

欲望不是要被理解的东西。它是要被忍受的东西。