Make-up can only make you look pretty on the outside but it doesn’t help if you're ugly on the inside. Unless you eat the make-up.

仲弓问仁。孔子说：“出门时要象会见贵宾一样庄重，建工程时要象举行盛大祭典一样严肃。自己不愿做的，不要强加于人。同事中相处融洽，亲属中和睦友爱。”仲弓说：“我虽不才，愿照此办理。”

Every human being has hundreds of separate people living under his skin. The talent of a writer is his ability to give them their separate names, identities, personalities and have them relate to each other.

我们与孩子交谈的方式会成为他们内心的声音。