When I have been listened to and when I have been heard, I am able to re-perceive my world in a new way and go on. It is astonishing how elements that seem insoluble become soluble when someone listens.

The only productive way to answer “what should I do now？” is to first tackle the question of “who should I become？”

你让我明白，我有理由爱自己。

Virtue is more to be feared than vice， because its excesses are not subject to the regulation of conscience.