Productivity is often a distraction. Don’t aim for better ways to get through your tasks as quickly as possible， rather aim for better tasks that you never want to stop doing.

On vacation go to the most remote place on your itinerary first， bypassing the cities. You‘ll maximize the shock of otherness in the remote， and then later you’ll welcome the familiar comforts of a city on the way back.

对各种权威的怀疑源于这次经历，这种态度从未离开过我。

The value of psychology is in its power to explain life.

When negotiating， don‘t aim for a bigger piece of the pie； aim to create a bigger pie.

最伟大的故事是那些揭示人性复杂性的故事。

Psychology must be based on observable facts, not speculation.