The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.

You have to be patient with yourself and trust the process.

The psychologist must avoid all forms of mental chemistry.

The best response to those who hurt you isn't revenge,  but doing your best to have a better life.

爱中没有正义，没有比例，也不需要，因为在任何特定的情况下，它只是一个拥抱的、难以理解的现实的一瞥或寓言。

I'm not bossy. I'm the boss.

改变的秘诀在于集中所有精力，不是对抗旧事物，而是建立新事物。