常规不是关于僵化；它是关于孩子的安全感和可预测性。

I'm not good at pretending. I'm not good at lying. I'm not good at being something I'm not.

The best time to negotiate your salary for a new job is the moment AFTER they say they want you， and not before. Then it becomes a game of chicken for each side to name an amount first， but it is to your advantage to get them to give a number before you do.

Flow is being completely involved in an activity for its own sake. The ego falls away. Time flies. Every action, movement, and thought follows inevitably from the previous one, like playing jazz. Your whole being is involved, and you're using your skills to the utmost.

质量不是希望；它是一种结果。