"The past is the past, but the future is a blank canvas."
"We accept the love we think we deserve."
Don't search for defining moments because they will never come. The moment that define you have already happened, and they will already happen again.
面对世俗的烦恼要能忍耐,处身纷扰的世事之中要能安闲,心中牵挂的事要能抛开,在功名利禄面前要淡然处之,心怀忿怒之时要能抑制住情绪。
优化阻碍了发展。