我不想让别人决定我是谁。我想自己决定。

My attitude is that if you push me towards something that you think is a weakness, then I will turn that perceived weakness into a strength.

所有行为都是由某种形式的驱力减少所驱动的。

【释义】依靠暴力使人服从，不是真心服从，只是力量不足以进行反抗；只有依靠道德使人服从，人家才会心悦诚服。