They just keep trotting back and forth across the bridge thinking there is something better on the other side. If they'd hang head down at the top of the thing and wait quietly, maybe something good would come along. But no—with men it's rush, rush, rush, every minute. I'm glad I'm a sedentary spider.
I don't like to compare myself to others. I just try to be the best I can be.
The only thing I can rely on is my own perception, and that is always changing.