现实并非发生在我们身上的事，而是我们如何处理那些发生的事。

The fountain of content must spring up in the mind, and they who have so little knowledge of human nature as to seek happiness by changing anything but their own dispositions will waste their lives in fruitless efforts.

译文：一句话不小心就会招致祸患，一件事不小心就会玷污名节。赏析：口无遮拦的人迟早会给自己带来祸患，行为不检点之人更会玷污自己的名节。我们的一言一行不仅关乎名节，更关乎性命，所以，我们要谨言慎行。